in our days, there are low days and high days...
i've learnt from my life that people around us are not sensitive enough to see beneath our body... they cannot really know what's going on within our self
therefore if we want to them to know... either we could tell them or just maybe show them how we feel...
the first way is the easiest... why? because by telling someone or group of people, we could clearly define what we really feeling, we might want sympathy or just understanding...
the second is rather hard... because... sometime people also are not that sensitive to catch our message... maybe just because they just dont care or maybe just because they just dont see that...
for me... these last two weeks have been my low days...
there are lot of things going on in my mind... therefore i should differentiate things that i need to give attention or just ignore
worsen by the weekend when i got so sick... then when i forced my self to come to the office on monday... because there is thing that i should to attend... and those have made me not really recover very well... until today... when i still feeling sick by the way...
though i've been coughing or sneezing so loud... people dont really get it that i've been sick, why? because i'm still working... they just see unfriendly face on me =(
what about if you're sad for whatever reason? do people around you will get it instantly? Nope! They wont.
because... if we're sad, we're maybe look misarable... but overall we just look the way we were at any other time... and there's something in us that just maybe want to show the feeling or even want to hide it... choose it!
if you want to show it... tell people who should know you're feeling about or they might not get it at all
or just hide it, be sad when you are just alone with yourself...
maybe sounded to be harsh... but that's life!
people dont really want to be with sad people, because they have their own sadness, they dont really want to add more with somebody else' sadness...
people here... might be your partner, your love one (family and friends), your colleagues... or just people you meet on the street...
good luck! :D
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